i came across this very interesting article.. in smu's blurt.. its abt frenship.. it actually list out the various "categories" or frens.. haa let me share them with u guys..
The Best Fren:
This is the fren you've known forever. They witnessed some of the most embarrassing moments of your adolescence. They were with you through all your sch yrs. When uni came ard, u accepted the fact tat u would not be able 2 spend tat much time together anymore. Phone calls became less frequent. You cancelled lunches n then suddenly, you stopped referring 2 them as ur best fren. But whenever u go thru photo albums, u feel sad tat u let it go, but u also understand y u did it.
The Current Best Fren:
This is the person who u call most often these days. They are the ones who get to hear abt sch, chores n frivolous matters. This fren is also the person who speaks n sounds almost like u. You both squirm or laugh at the same things.. But..this person will become the...
The Ex-best fren who gets on ur nerves:
You wonder how you could have been such gd frens with this person. U started noticing little things that irk u. slowly, the ex-best fren gets the idea that maybe u both do not share the same interests anymore. NOw, u see them ard, exchange greetings or hugs n den walk on.
The Fren-turned-sworn-enemy:
There is this 1 fren who stabbed u so hard in the back that u are still bleeding. When u see them on the road, u give them the dirties look imaginable n then walk along, feeling tremendously happy abt urself.
The Fren u go to when u are howling:
Everyone has a fren who is there 2 listen 2 u when the going gets tough. They go with u for midnite or afternoon walks n juz listen. They do not pretend like they can solve ur problems n they do not suggest anything. u do not know y u go to them, but u know that when life has been tough on u, they will be there 2 provide a listening ear.
Hehee.. so how? which category of fren do u belong 2? as u read thru each category.. who comes 2 ur mind??.. how true are those stuff?? im not sure.. i guess its subjective to individuals la.. 2 me.. i think its quite true.. after reading tat article.. i was like.. hmmm trying 2 figure out who belongs 2 which category.. hahah.. anyway.. frenship is such an amazing thing.. it makes ur life so much better with gd frens ard u.. so try ur very best.. to keep ur current best fren(if there's any).. let them become ur best fren.. instead of ur ex-best fren.. nobody's perfect.. so maybe we shld learn 2 accept everybody's negative factors so tat they can stay n remind as ur best fren.. hee.. there's this saying: "Frens are those rare ppl who ask how u are n then wait to hear the ans." So.. lets all wait n hear the ans today!!..
i muz say im quite fortunate to have some very nice ppl ard me.. n a couple of gd frens.. i kinda noe in my mind who they are.. so nice.. when i think of my ex colleagues too... hehe.. i miss everybody.. oh yeah.. i was toking 2 my ex attachment jie mei!.. hehe so sweettt.... she still contact me.. n she will update me on watever happen 2 everybody.. i miss all of them man.. they were so nice 2 me.. even the boss treat me like some clown... coz i always tell him silly jokes... haha.. ahh my silly supervisor getting married this sat!! hmpt.. never tell me.. haha im gonna suan him tmr.. hehe my jie mei agreed 2 help me out with my chi project.. coz im suppose 2 invite a guess speaker to the class 2 share with the class their exp.. abt how the company work with china partners.. she agreed 2 help me.. though she have to take leave.. arrgg im so touched.. hehee... see im fortunate.. hehe oh yeah.. better go tell my grp mates abt this.. hehe happy happy!!..
*//W|sHeD uPoN @ sTaR//* | 11:30 PM
